Over time holes form in the fabric of your life. Things that you used to do come to an end. Don’t go to the office and drink morning foam cup coffee any more. Don’t walk the kids to school and chat with other moms any more. Don’t spend time with friends at the skating rink while the kids take lessons, any more. Don’t walk the dogs with the best friend that moved away any more. What seemed to be a sturdy, colorful, well made piece of cloth suitable for many uses has become a frayed and faded rag too worn to mend.